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you go girl!!!


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> Hello everyone,
>  
> Sorry I'm a little quiet.  I'm not myself, but don't
> worry  Meir.  You didn't 
> scare me off.  On the contrary, I really appreciated
>  your response and 
> everyone else's too.  I couldn't get back online for
> a  long time after I posted 
> and then I was sort of speechless after reading
> through  the posts.  It just got 
> to me to have support and I didn't know what to 
> say.
>  
> To answer a few things that were asked or mentioned
> -- I'm in LA and  the 
> beach is Will Rodgers (a very public beach). 
> Neither time was I near  the water 
> - in fact, when the worst thing happened I was
> sitting fully clothed -  shoes 
> and all - on the beach (he saw me walk from my car)
> so I don't think they  
> were worried about me swimming.  Plenty of people
> walk on that  beach and never 
> swim.  Its not unusual there.  They just saw the 
> way I walked and jumped to 
> conclusions.  And they weren't even polite about  it
> - that's not acceptable for 
> public employees at a beach.  We pay their 
> salaries. Even if they are 
> ignorant, they can be polite.
>  
> And Mag, I love your idea about a day at the beach
> for my friends with  
> disabilities.  If only I knew enough people to go
> for it. With my luck  though, the 
> nice guards would be on duty that day - there are
> some good ones  which just 
> proves to me that the bad ones don't have to be that
> way.  It is  possible to 
> hire and/or train good people.  It does piss me off
> too now  that I've begun 
> thinking how inacessible these beaches are.  It's 
> not right and I'm ashamed I didn't think of it more
> before but most people  I 
> know who have disabilities couldn't even get to the
> sand.
>  
> Linda, I am working on a letter to your son.  It's
> hard for me not to  write 
> a really emotional letter, so I'm going slowly and
> editing so that it's  short 
> and clear.  Thank you very much for the contact.
>  
> Gosh, I want to thank every one.......... Kendall, I
> contacted the  
> disability comission and they've sent papers, but
> all they can do is file an  informal 
> complaint.  I have a friend at PAI I'll talk to
> Thurs. And Ken,  I've already 
> called a law office because the only guy directly
> above the head of  the 
> lifeguards.........not hopeful.  Not at all.
>  
> Deri - I like the insensitive moron theory!  I don't
> think it's a  labor 
> dispute though I do wonder if there is some internal
> problem.  A few  years ago, 
> all the guards were totally cool.  I even know a kid
> with CP  whom they used to 
> carry down to the beach because he was too big for
> his mom to  carry.  That 
> would flip these guys out now.
>  
> Heather, Kat, Linda (maxaudio) and Meir - thanks for
> the  encouragement!!  
> I'm sorry to read about your incident Meir and I'm 
> glad you're ok.
>  
> If there's someone I didn't mention, yell at me. 
> There's not one  email i 
> didn't appreciate.
>  
> it's gotten me down because i have a lot to deal
> with (cp being the least  of 
> it at times).  i know a lot of people have lots to
> cope with so i'm no  big 
> deal, but i really needed one thing to be hassle
> free. now even the beach  
> seems complicated. 
>  
> i will let you all know what happens and thanks
> again for all your  support!
>  
> susie 
> 
> 
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