Hi,

>Ken and Trisha --  For God's (or whoever's) Sake would you two stop
>bickering.  Are you related to each other?
>Only siblings would go at it like this.

        Ken and I are just having a discussion - nobody is mad with each
other - we took it to our private e-mail. We are doing just fine.

>There is no right, or wrong, or good ,or bad. We are not the enforcers of
>the laws of the heavens.  Each person
>determines their own destiny.   Let it go.

    I know this I said the same thing the other day - I am not sure why when
people have discussions and they are on opposite sides of the fence - it is
assumed they are arguing. You certainly can learn alot from someone holding
a different viewpoint, and people can have intellectually stimulating
conversation without being real odds with each other. I suspect as many
argue to prove they are right - it give debates a bad name. We make
assumptions based experiences but this doesn't mean they are valid in every
circumstance. Frankly, a good discussion keeps people on their toes, makes
them think abit ( a quality sadly lacking in our society) and broadens there
horizons - even if its only additional items bolstering their opinion. So
please relax, I may debate but I rarely argue - its a waste of time.

                                        Brightest Blessings
                                               Trisha