> Before your explanation I thought the Female Big O depended on the whether.
>
steve, i don't know if you're kidding or not, but if that is true, glad i
could help.  even with the best lover, sometimes it just doesn't take, but
the lady can still enjoy the journey and when it becomes apparent she isn't
going to make a goal, she should gently inform her partner so as not to blame
him.

mag