Laura and others, I fear I have gotten misunderstood here. The reason
why I tend to favor someone with a disability is this: I figure that a
mate with a disability can be more understanding or helpful. By this I
mean if a young abled bodied lady were to start a relationship with me
she would have start at ground zero. Where as a person in a wheelchair
for instance knows at least to some extent what to expect.
You are right that even a breakup between disabled people can lead and
most likely will lead to a heartbreak. I do not doubt that. As for
what I'm looking for in a relationship: Someone who I can help and
share the triumphs with and someone who can help get through the bad
times with.
I don't expect to meet someone tomorrow and get married next week.
Someone I can get to know as a friend and then who knows. I am not
trying to send a double standard I could careless if the person was
"abled" or "disabled" but as I stated on top I think a disabled women as
in my case would possibly have a better understanding of the
situations. But if I were to get an opportunity to date a "abled
bodied" woman I would certainly NOT turn her down.
I just feel I need some experience in dating. I'm tired of this
sheltered life. If I fall on my nose well I'll get up with new insight
the next time.
I hope I have not added more fuel to fire,
Jan