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Right, Steve. After all, if we are successful at dealing with our own
blindness, chances are pretty good that if you marry someone who has also
adjusted well to it and who was the right match for you would be able to
have a successful relationship.
I'm like you. I wouldn't want anyone who wanted me just to rescue me, or do
for me, because that usually leads to controlling me. That kind of thing
gets old quickly for both parties.
Harvey
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From: "Steve Dresser" <[log in to unmask]>
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Sent: Saturday, May 25, 2013 12:41 PM
Subject: Re: sighted partners
> Well said, Harvey. I struggled with this question a lot when I was in
> college, and finally decided that although many things might be easier if
> I
> had a sighted wife, it was ultimately more important to marry someone who
> accepted and understood me regardless of whether that person could see or
> not. It seemed to me that some sighted girls wanted to go out with me
> because they saw an opportunity to rescue someone, and I definitely didn't
> want that. I don't think that was true in all cases, but I got tired of
> trying to figure out when it was or wasn't true. If I were looking for a
> mate today, I think that would just be one of many issues I'd want to
> resolve. If my potential mate could see, we'd have different issues than
> if
> she were blind, but ultimately it would come down to how well we could
> work
> through whatever issues we had, and where we came out at the end of the
> process.
>
> Steve
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