Hi Phil, I really like that.

Thanks for sharing. I'm keeping this one.

Lovingly,

Pat Ferguson



At 11:36 PM 5/21/2009, you wrote:
>Not all Christian but good advice anyhow.
>
>Phil.
>
>Written By Regina Brett, 90 years old, of The Plain Dealer, Cleveland, Ohio
>
>"To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught 
>me. It is the most-requested column I've ever written."
>
>My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more:
>
>1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
>
>2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
>
>3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
>
>4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends 
>and parents will. Stay in touch.
>
>5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
>
>6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
>
>7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.
>
>8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
>
>9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.
>
>10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
>
>11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.
>
>12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.
>
>13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their 
>journey is all about.
>
>14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.
>
>15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; 
>God never blinks.
>
>16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
>
>17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
>
>18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.
>
>19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second 
>one is up to you and no one else.
>
>20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take 
>no for an answer.
>
>21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. 
>Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
>
>22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.
>
>23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.
>
>24. The most important sex organ is the brain.
>
>25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
>
>26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words 'In five years, 
>will this matter?'
>
>27. Always choose life.
>
>28. Forgive everyone for everything.
>
>29. What other people think of you is none of your business.
>
>30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.
>
>31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
>
>32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
>
>33. Believe in miracles.
>
>34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you 
>did or didn't do.
>
>35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
>
>36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.
>
>37. Your children get only one childhood.
>
>38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
>
>39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
>
>40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, 
>we'd grab ours back.
>
>41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
>
>42. The best is yet to come.
>
>43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
>
>44. Yield.
>
>45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift."
>
>The End.