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I'll look at the pages Paul.
I also have a message saved here from you where you did a commentary on
passages from the bible recently which was interesting but to much to take
in at the time which I need to read through again.
We watched one of those bibilical cartoons I talked about when I first got
on here and it was a totally new storey to me.
Abram or Abraham, whoever he was by then put his kid up their on the alter
and I was thinking, now god couldn't have let this happen.
I'm starting to wonder about him.
Then of course god said, back off with that zippo fellow and I was happy
again.
The cartoon didn't actually say that in case you don't recognize my humor.
Don't want you thinking bad of the people who put this cartoon out.
I wondered how they were going to tiptoe around the sexual aspects of him
letting his wife go with other men to get pregnant and such because I had
heard that Abraham sent his wife into other men's houses but nothing more.
They did pretty well with it and still were pretty strait forward.
By the way, Terri's grandmother who I contend with over the way she does
things and how it has affected the way everyone else in the family does
things in general had shock treatments in the early 70's.
I sometimes think this is why she is the way she is but then I see her
sissters and other family members and they act pretty much the same way.
The behaviors which I don't want affecting my house hold are a sort of
spoiledness or selfcenteredness, materialisticness and a value of what looks
right or can be shown off and a general lack of value or validness for men.
The boys who have came up in the family are either child like and dependant,
in other words falling into the wake of the actions of the adults in their
lives or they fight so hard to get away from it and to prove it wrong that
the family gripes and complains about them and they show up very little at
family functions but yet they still seem to want posative attention from the
adults in the family.
This causes me a lot of stress since I am raising a kid near them but we are
making clear that we are the major force in our child's life and that we
will think before acting instead of just doing whatever our families have
done with their kids in the past.
They are currently trying to use guilt against us for this and act as if we
are hurting their feelings or devaluing them which we could well be doing
but what they did was wrong and we are only trying to do right by our child
and raise her better than we were raised.
I don't believe that anyone in my family received shock treatments but they
are almost as screwed up if not as screwed up.
hahahahahah
Take Care,
Matt
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