Phil,
I think Jesus is probably not busy enough, since so many people, including 
some poor mis-guided Christians are living together and otherwise taking 
matters into their own hands.
Vinny
----- Original Message ----- 
From: "Phil Scovell" <[log in to unmask]>
To: <[log in to unmask]>
Sent: Monday, July 14, 2008 11:33 AM
Subject: Re: E Harmony


>
> Vinny,
>
> I sure remember Art's show.  He had some interesting things on that show. 
> I
> guess the two people you know might just have to rely upon the Lord to 
> find
> a mate then.  Sorry.  Too bad.  I hear Jesus is pretty busy of late so He
> probably don't have time for insignificant things like marriages and the
> like, these days.
>
> Phil.
>
>
>
> ----- Original Message ----- 
> From: "Vinny Samarco" <[log in to unmask]>
> To: <[log in to unmask]>
> Sent: Monday, July 14, 2008 10:53 AM
> Subject: Re: E Harmony
>
>
>> Phil,
>>     I know two people who tried e-harmony and were matched up with people
>> from quite a distance away  At least these two couples didn't get 
>> married.
>> It didn't take long for each of them to decide that their matched 
>> partners
>> weren't the right one for them.
>>     I don't know if you are old enough to remember Art Linkletter's 
>> People
>> are funny program.  The was a humongous electronic brain called univack
>> .  Someone would put people's characteristics in and come up with some
> kind
>> of matched date.  I never heard how these worked out.
>>     Actually, I  preferred the method of leaving the choice of my mate to
> my
>> father, God.  I looked in many places and many faces, so to- speak, but 
>> it
>> wasn't until I completely turned that matter over to the Lord, that I got
>> his choice for me.  It will be 30 years next Jan. 6.
>>     Vinny----- Original Message ----- 
>> From: "Phil Scovell" <[log in to unmask]>
>> To: <[log in to unmask]>
>> Sent: Sunday, July 13, 2008 3:17 PM
>> Subject: E Harmony
>>
>>
>> >
>> > I, as most others, have listened to years of saturated commercials from
> e
>> > harmony dot com.  I think the founder of the organization is a born
> again
>> > Christian but I don't know this for certain.  Anyhow, something finally
>> > dawned on me one day.  They talk about filling out this compatibility
> form
>> > of, what is it, 29 dynamics of compatibility in order to perfectly 
>> > match
>> > you
>> > with somebody else?  Anyhow, suddenly I realized, what ever happened to
>> > opposites attract.  I mean, I have marriage tapes by Tim La Hay who
> taught
>> > on why opposites attract and make good marriages.  I realize times have
>> > changed but have marriage relationship changed, too?  I have spoken
>> > personally to several people who have logged on to the website.  Half
> had
>> > fair to good experiences meeting someone, and the other half got 
>> > nothing
>> > for
>> > the time and money.  When you hear how many marriages have occurred
>> > through
>> > e harmony relationships, don't you ever wonder how many failures of
> those
>> > marriages, not to mention failures to meet somebody at all, have
> occurred?
>> > I do.  Once again, we discover the church has dropped the ball on this
>> > one.
>> > Where are the successful singles ministries.  Oh, sure.  I know of
> several
>> > here in Denver and some mega churches and even some small churches but
> the
>> > people I have interviewed about their experiences in such single
>> > ministries,
>> > is always negative, for some reason.  What gives here?  Is the church 
>> > so
>> > weak now that it needs an online singles matching network to find 
>> > people
>> > their mates God has for them?  On e harmony, what happens if you aren't
> a
>> > good, or perfect, match?  Do you get to pick people who are your
> opposite
>> > to
>> > try?  Sorry, just a happily married man thinking out loud, that's all.
> By
>> > the way, the Lord found a wife for me basically through the church in a
>> > very
>> > miraculous manner.  Way to go God.  I'm sorry we can't rely on your
>> > judgment
>> > as much any more.  We'll build larger churches, to reach more singles,
>> > instead so I hope that is ok with you, lord.
>> >
>> > Phil.
>>