well all, just to show you all what an idiot i am lol, I was connected to echolink, doing other things(yeah should have closed it), but i got a connect from some ham in oregon and i quick put my headset on but this is the dork in me, i tried to talk without hitting the transmit..um..no wonder he couldnt hear me 

speaking of, is there a way to change it from being the space bar

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