Phil, that is an interesting question, which probably has a reply of hundreds!
It isn't only e harmony dot com that ropes folks in that way, but 
sometimes it is just one on one correspondence over the internet.  E 
harmony and that sort are money-makers for the owners, and they can 
show all the so-called happy couples they want to, but it doesn't 
impress most folks, especially those who have experienced the hurts.

Waiting to hear the rest of your story about the reason the lady 
backed out after signing up.  Smile

Helen


Earlier you wrote:
>Perhaps it is my own jealousy that makes me curious about this but when e
>harmony dot com advertisements come on, showing all the happy couples, I
>always want to ask, show me how many couples were hurt by hooking up with
>the wrong person.  Of course, I guess with 29 aspects of compatibility,
>there are no mistakes?  Just thinking out loud.  Does anybody know of
>anybody who has used eharmony.com?  I know a lady who logged on and began
>answering all the questions but then backed out.  I'll tell you why another
>time.
>
>Phil.

"...........Love is a cross!"