Rhonda,
We never meant for you to feel awful!  We all love you and we are concerned 
for you and Ben.  I think he does need medical attention but you have done 
your best to convince him to go and you are right you cannot make a person 
go if they do not want to go.  Please accept my apology for making you feel 
terrible.  I am praying!
Virgie and Hoshi
----- Original Message ----- 
From: "Rhonda Partain" <[log in to unmask]>
To: <[log in to unmask]>
Sent: Monday, April 10, 2006 9:52 PM
Subject: apology


>I am sorry, I really never talked to anyone, I did leave a message, but
> never heard back! I just feel sooo awful, I can't do anything,  if I were 
> to
> call 911 Ben could refuse treatment,  he has the right to do that! I do
> think he needs to see someone, but what can I do?  People were saying "If 
> I
> were You" and I just felt so awful, caught between  well, wanting Ben to 
> go
> get some medical attention and  not knowing how to get him to do that!
> I just feel so  worried, what can I do?  I realize he needs attention,
> swelling in itself means his kidneys aren't working,  but what do I do?  I
> guess I just felt  as though you guys would think I was an awful person if 
> I
> didn't call, or somehow get Ben to go!
> Rhonda