I understand this. The problem I have with my son's behavior toward me is:
I somehow feel like some sort of failure because I think if I weren't he
wouldn't talk to me or act the way he does I think, somehow, if I had done
something differently he wouldn't steel from me and act so disrespectfully
toward me. I end up sabotaging myself because I am trying to make up
somehow for the way I feel. I realize this and know this has got to stop
because I will probably end up the cause of the way he acts in future. I
just want things to run so smoothly for my children. It isn't easy for me
because I never had parents to guide me after about 12 as they were vary
sick both of them. I and my sister had to care for them and they never were
role models because their primary concern was to try to survive themselves.
----- Original Message -----
From: Phil Scovell <[log in to unmask]>
To: <[log in to unmask]>
Sent: Sunday, December 18, 2005 4:31 PM
Subject: Re: The Beginning of Christmas
> Brad,
>
> YEP, THAT'S ME, BROTHER. LAST THANKSGIVING, GRETCHEN SAID HER TEETH HURT.
> i IMAGINE THEY DO A LOT BECAUSE SHE HAS ROTTED THEM OUT USING SO MUCH
METH.
> WE JUST GOT A 500 DOLLAR CREDIT SO SHE COULD GO IN AND GET A COUPLE MORE
> PULLED BECAUSE WE CANNOT AFFORD, AND SHE DEFINITELY CAN'T AFFORD, TO HAVE
> THEM ALL PULLED AND THEN REPLACED THEM WITH DENTURES. SO, WE'LL GET STUFF
> TRYING TO PAY THAT LITTLE BILL OFF NOW, TOO. I'VE TOLD HER TODAY IT IS
TIME
> TO LEAVE, BY THE WAY, BUT THINGS MAY YET BE WORKED OUT. ANYHOW, LAST
> THANKSGIVING, SHE AND HER BOY FRIEND STAYED DOWNSTAIRS THE WHOLE TIME AND
> DIDN'T EAT WITH THE REST OF THE FAMILY. THEN THEY SNEAKED UPSTAIRS LATER
> AND MADE PLATES FOR THEMSELVES AND SNEAKED BACK DOWNSTAIRS. ODD, YOUR
TEETH
> HURT TOO MUCH TO EAT tHANKSGIVING WITH YOUR OWN CHILDREN BUT A COUPLE OF
> HOURS LATER, YOU AND YOUR BOY FRIEND CAN FILL UP A PLATE AND EAT IT
> DOWNSTAIRS AWAY FROM EVERYBODY. MAYBE i SHOULD JUST TURN MY ABUSIVE SELF
IN
> TO THE POLICE. THEY PROBABLY WOULD LAUGH WHEN i TOLD THEM WHY i HAD COME
> IN.
>
> Sorry, I don't know how my caps lock key got turned on for most of this.
> PHIL.
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