For me, the worst part of my miscarriage was that, I delivered at 
home, so I knew that it was a fully formed baby and I had to wrap him 
up and bring him with me to the emergency room.  The midwife had 
warned me that the people in the emergency room might be a bit crass 
and insensitive,  and she was right.  They kept referring to my baby 
as, "contents!"  I kept wanting to scream, it's a boy and it was 
loved and wanted.  It's not just contents, like something that you 
buy in a jar at the store     !"  Unfortunately, I didn't have the 
energy and since I had a pretty bad strep infection myself, which was 
putting my life at risk as well, I just had to let the insults go and 
get through the whole situation with the help of the 
Lord.  Unfortunately, they didn't even offer to give him back to us 
and we were too emotionally distracted to ask.  Poor Donna.  She is 
in my prayers.  Just give her lots of hugs and lots of 
chocolate.  For me, at least, time has eased the pain of the 
memory.  I just look forward to seeing Aaron in heaven some day.  I 
know that I will!
Kathy


At 09:43 PM 2/3/2006, you wrote:
>Hospitals can be so  uncompassitionate at times,  when I had my miscarriage
>I heard a nurse in the hall say "We gave her the oxyatocin so she can abort
>the rest on her own"
>I was devastated!
>God be near Dona,  calm all the thoughts of I should have, or if  only I
>had,  send peace that toes beyond what can ben understood,  surround her
>with those that love her, and will show her that love even more now when she
>neds it the most.
>Rhonda
>
>-----Original Message-----
>From: The Electronic Church [mailto:[log in to unmask]] On
>Behalf Of Phil Scovell
>Sent: Friday, February 03, 2006 9:39 PM
>To: [log in to unmask]
>Subject: Donna
>
>Donna had a second miscarriage this week.  She had a DNC yesterday as a
>result but her blood test showed some aftermath in her fallopian tubes.
>They had her scheduled to undergo a procedure where an I V is run to cleanse
>the rest of the aftermath from the fallopian tubes tomorrow.  My son called
>and said waiting an extra day was simply unacceptable.  So what did her
>doctor do?  Sent her to the Emergency Room to sit for several hours.  As if
>she wasn't upset enough the way it was already.  Sandy just called me at
>almost 7:30 to say they were back in an examining room now but I have no
>idea how long the procedure with the I V will take.  I am assuming not much
>more time that it takes for an I V to empty.
>
>Phil.
>
>
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