Kathy,
Ah so that isn't Greg's fat bob Harley in the garage, it's yours, you
just make him drive you around town on his days off, I see. And those
spiked collars aren't for the dog, but your Sunday best, I see now OK.
lol. From what you say others say about you when they find out you are a
pastor's wife, tells me the stereo types still do exist even today. It's
good people are surprised that you quote, "aren't the right type", I think
that goes a long way to break down communication and credibility barriers
between churched and non-churched folks.
Brad
At 07:37 AM 1/23/2006 -0500, you wrote:
>In other words Brad, you hadn't met me yet! GRIN! The main comment
>that I receive when people learn that I"m a pastor's wife is, "You're
>not the right type!" What a hoot! Breaking molds can be so much fun!
>Kathy
>
>
>At 12:42 AM 1/23/2006, you wrote:
> >Vicki,
> >
> >Well if enough folks talk to him, maybe that will cause him to stop and
> >think perhaps there is something to what others have to say about it. I
> >wonder what his fear of it is. For me years back was I didn't want to
> >lose my way of life. I pictured church people as straight backed, clean
> >shaven, lily white skinned, pathetically polite people in sweaters with
> >leather patches on the elbows and if their kids misbehaved badly to a point
> >of embarrassment in public it was "Now Jimmy chuckle chuckle that's just
> >about enough of that for now OK? Good boy". I had a tainted impression
> >based upon some poor examples. I'm not saying Christians out be unshaven
> >rude people, but my impression was picket fence hypocrites and wanted no
> >part of being fake. I'd rather wanted to stay me even if I was off, but at
> >least I was what you saw. So anyway, perhaps he too has a wrong impression
> >and thinks Christians are boring folks and if he becomes one, he'll too be
> >boring lol.
> >
> >Brad
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >At 04:02 PM 1/21/2006 -0700, you wrote:
> > >Mom has talked with him too. But he doesn't want to listen. I'm
> > >considering a couple of other options too. But he likes my Oatmeal Raisin
> > >cookies. We might have a talk over a cookie. My sister is quite anti.
> > >There isn't an open door there right now at all.
> > >
> > >Thanks for your concern and prayers.
> > >
> > >Vicki
> > >
> > >----- Original Message -----
> > >From: "MV" <[log in to unmask]>
> > >To: <[log in to unmask]>
> > >Sent: Saturday, January 21, 2006 3:11 PM
> > >Subject: Re: [ECHURCH-USA] Man's man
> > >
> > >
> > > > Vicki,
> > > >
> > > > Glad to hear your mom has made that step. Has she tried talking to him
> > > > about it, or perhaps you and mom together? Sounds like your sister
> might
> > > > need to sit in as well from what you said. Maybe you need to get some
> > >duct
> > > > tape and tape his lips together and have him sit on his hands and
> listen
> > >to
> > > > the plain facts of life *smile*. It is hard sometimes to gain
> > respect from
> > > > a relative, let alone a child telling a parent what the score is. One
> > >thing
> > > > I know about Bear is he was witnessed to many times, the preacher
> as you
> > > > saw in the article was subject to a number of abuses going in there to
> > >talk
> > > > to him, and yet he was softened by that constant reminder and tangible
> > > > evidence someone cared. Had the prisoner not taken that last step of
> > > > making a bet with him, and no one did anything else to witness to Bear,
> > > > he'd likely not be where he is today. I pray your dad is afforded yet
> > > > another try, and another, and another until he sees the truth.
> > And someone
> > > > with boldness and who might have a way to gain the respect needed
> to have
> > > > him listen crosses his path.
> > > >
> > > > Brad
> > > >
> > > > At 01:32 PM 1/21/2006 -0700, you wrote:
> > > > >Great article Brad. Thanks for sharing. It really points up the fact
> > >that
> > > > >God knows how to reach each and every one of us.
> > > > >
> > > > >Dad is a very kind and giving person. I'm not sure why this other
> part
> > >of
> > > > >him is hardened to the Gospel, but God knows.
> > > > >
> > > > >Vicki
> > > > >
> > > > >----- Original Message -----
> > > > >From: "MV" <[log in to unmask]>
> > > > >To: <[log in to unmask]>
> > > > >Sent: Saturday, January 21, 2006 1:21 PM
> > > > >Subject: [ECHURCH-USA] Man's man
> > > > >
> > > > >
> > > > > > Vicki,
> > > > > >
> > > > > > Check this link out. If God can turn Bear around, he can change
> > >anyone.
> > > > > > I've heard Bear speak and met him a couple times, he was good
> friends
> > >with
> > > > > > a friend of mine, and the link here doesn't tell the half of his
> > >story.
> > > > >So
> > > > > > your dad is a cream puff compared to what this man endured, only he
> > >don't
> > > > > > know it yet lol. To tell you just how a Teddy Bear Richard
> became, my
> > > > >buddy
> > > > > > bought a little teddy bear on one of their motorcycle trips
> > and put it
> > >in
> > > > > > his pack for him to find. My friend had walked up to him when
> he was
> > >at
> > > > >his
> > > > > > bike and found this six foot something mountain of a man with
> tears
> > >down
> > > > > > his face over the act of kindness and I suppose so much a freeing
> > >opposite
> > > > > > compared to what he lived all those years.
> > > > > >
> > > > > > http://www.circuitridersdfw.org/page8.html
> > > > > >
> > > > > >
> > > > > > Brad
> > > > > >
> > > > > > Work is for people who don't know how to write songs
> > > > > >
> > > >
> > > > Brad
> > > >
> > > > Get educated, not frustrated
> > > >
> >
> >Brad
> >
> > Give Satan an inch & he'll be a ruler
Brad
Strive to be insulated, not insulated
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