have you tried the product *123s and chreese*?  it's free of milk products,
but looks like mac 'n cheese and tastes delicious!

here's a link to this and similar products sold at miss roben's online:
http://www.allergygrocery.com/Merchant2/merchant.mvc?Store_Code=AG&Screen=SRCH&Search=chreese

also, try searching vegweb.com for recipes.  they have an entire kid-friendly
section that is awesome. here's a link to a chreese sauce that is very similar
to the product noted above, but you can save some of the expense by making it
yourself: http://vegweb.com/recipes/misc/3987.shtml

as for the guilt issue, we usually deal with it by offering a safe version of
whatever unsafe food we might be serving.  we only have one child and he is
allergic to egg and milk products.  so we don't have sibling issues.  but
sometimes my husband and i eat something that is unsafe for noel.  in that
case, if it is something he usually likes, we make a safe version for him.
for example, we just had chicken enchiladas over the weekend.  we made a
separate pan of enchiladas that were safe for him.  we do the same with pizza.
 we always make a safe version for him that looks a lot like what we are
having.  and in some cases, we just serve the safe version, ommitting the milk
and egg products altogether.

hope this helps,
melanie


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>On a different subject, my milk and whey allergic 3 year old LOVES macaroni=
> and cheese -- really, anything starchy and/or cheesy.  Does anyone know of=
> an alternative to mac n cheese for this little guy?  Also, how do you=
> handle the guilt of not giving your other children foods that they love=
> b/c their brother can't eat them?  Either way, it seems so unfair to=
> someone!  \
>Thanks - Liam's Mom
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>Subject: Re: Nasal Irrigation (Netti Pot)
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>Whatever you use, just be sure the pressure is gentle enough.  I have a=
> friend that found that using the bottles that bottled water come in worked=
> better for her than a netti pot, but I would think you'd want to be very=
> careful squeezing something like that.
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>I often ad a bit of pickling salt or white vinegar to my distilled water. =
> It's been the best for immediate relief of sinuses & the coughing & other=
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>Carla
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