You did the right thing and you are right Kathy.  You will see Aaron in Heaven.  Dr's are not known for having sympathy in any case.  I beleive they should have psycology course too.  But they are all science and technical.  We just have to pray that their eyes be open to the Lord. 

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I would rather live my life as if there is a God, and die to find out there isn't, than live my life as if there isn't, and die to find out there is

IN GOD WE TRUST
Karen Carter  '74
-KC- Ministries


 -------------- Original message ----------------------
From: Kathy Du Bois <[log in to unmask]>
> For me, the worst part of my miscarriage was that, I delivered at 
> home, so I knew that it was a fully formed baby and I had to wrap him 
> up and bring him with me to the emergency room.  The midwife had 
> warned me that the people in the emergency room might be a bit crass 
> and insensitive,  and she was right.  They kept referring to my baby 
> as, "contents!"  I kept wanting to scream, it's a boy and it was 
> loved and wanted.  It's not just contents, like something that you 
> buy in a jar at the store     !"  Unfortunately, I didn't have the 
> energy and since I had a pretty bad strep infection myself, which was 
> putting my life at risk as well, I just had to let the insults go and 
> get through the whole situation with the help of the 
> Lord.  Unfortunately, they didn't even offer to give him back to us 
> and we were too emotionally distracted to ask.  Poor Donna.  She is 
> in my prayers.  Just give her lots of hugs and lots of 
> chocolate.  For me, at least, time has eased the pain of the 
> memory.  I just look forward to seeing Aaron in heaven some day.  I 
> know that I will!
> Kathy
> 
> 
> At 09:43 PM 2/3/2006, you wrote:
> >Hospitals can be so  uncompassitionate at times,  when I had my miscarriage
> >I heard a nurse in the hall say "We gave her the oxyatocin so she can abort
> >the rest on her own"
> >I was devastated!
> >God be near Dona,  calm all the thoughts of I should have, or if  only I
> >had,  send peace that toes beyond what can ben understood,  surround her
> >with those that love her, and will show her that love even more now when she
> >neds it the most.
> >Rhonda
> >
> >-----Original Message-----
> >From: The Electronic Church [mailto:[log in to unmask]] On
> >Behalf Of Phil Scovell
> >Sent: Friday, February 03, 2006 9:39 PM
> >To: [log in to unmask]
> >Subject: Donna
> >
> >Donna had a second miscarriage this week.  She had a DNC yesterday as a
> >result but her blood test showed some aftermath in her fallopian tubes.
> >They had her scheduled to undergo a procedure where an I V is run to cleanse
> >the rest of the aftermath from the fallopian tubes tomorrow.  My son called
> >and said waiting an extra day was simply unacceptable.  So what did her
> >doctor do?  Sent her to the Emergency Room to sit for several hours.  As if
> >she wasn't upset enough the way it was already.  Sandy just called me at
> >almost 7:30 to say they were back in an examining room now but I have no
> >idea how long the procedure with the I V will take.  I am assuming not much
> >more time that it takes for an I V to empty.
> >
> >Phil.
> >
> >
> >Jesus Is Your Only Problem.
> >www.SafePlaceFellowship.com