Rhonda,
Sounds like you really had some excitement!  I am thankful it turned out
well.
I sure hope that Ben can find some help that will be a real help to him and
his condition.  I pray for healing for him and for peace for you as you try
to help and encourage him.  I know it must be difficult for you so lean on
Him.  "cast your burdens on Him for He cares for you".

Ned