HMMMMMMMM LUV sounds like the wrong ending.
One little bite of potato from a grandmother is not likely to kill this
child. Consistant daily eating to accomodate your preferences is what will be
the take for the child.
However I am not sure that the dominant memory for the child and the family
in general for this incident wont be a quarrelous mother who must control
others acts of love.
I suspect that there is more to life, and good health than food. I feel
that gentle spirits, and patience and a bit of forgiveness is a major
component of good health and happy living.
Anne Shields