I found this just looking around
It sound like a wonderful prayer to pray:
St Francis Prayer
Lord, make me a channel of thy peace, that where there is hatred, I may
bring love; that where there is wrong, I may bring the spirit of
forgiveness; that
where there is discord, I may bring harmony; that where there is error, I
may bring truth; that where there is doubt, I may bring faith; that where
there
is despair, I may bring hope; that where there are shadows, I may bring
light that where there is sadness, I may bring joy.
Lord, grant that I may seek rather to comfort than to be comforted; to
understand, than to be understood; to love, than to be loved.  For it is by
self-forgetting
that one finds.  It is by forgiving that one is forgiven.
It is by dying that one awakens to Eternal Life.

Rhonda