Kathy I am glad you got a bird they are so cute I used to have parakeetes
when I was a kid and they lived for quite a while

keep us updated on things kay?  and we are praying


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From: "Kathy Du Bois" <[log in to unmask]>
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Sent: Tuesday, May 17, 2005 12:18 PM
Subject: The latest from Maine


> Hey Guys,
>        First  of all, on a brighter note, I thought that you guys could
> appreciate the fact that  we've become bird owners.  It was really a
> rescue
> mission of sorts.  This kid had to get rid of his parakeet and so,
> bravely,
> we took it in.  We have no clue whether it is male or female, or how old
> it
> is yet.  We know very little about birds so feel free to give advice.  It
> has a pretty little song and it really likes talking while we are
> talking.  It's name was Sky, so I think that we'll just keep it that
> way.  this all happened pretty fast.
>        As you might expect, Darius has lent his full approval to the new
> adition.  With me taking up knitting and now the bird, Darius's opinion of
> us has been elevated somewhat, I believe.  I'm quite sure that he thinks
> that we are doing this all for him!
>        In other news, We have been denied a court appointed lawyer.
> However, we
> have consulted with one of the criminal lawyers recommended to us and he
> has advised us to still not hire a lawyer and to appeal to the judge in
> the
> case as to the unfairness of the plaintiffs having to pay for the
> defendant's lawyer.  So, Greg has written a letter of appeal.  I do hope
> that this matter gets settled quickly so that the trial can proceed next
> Tuesday, May 24.  Selfishly, I just want this over with so that we all
> have
> a better clue as to what our future looks like.  I'm not the adventurous
> sort who thrives on the unknown.
>        Along those lines, we will be having our team meeting tomorrow, I
> believe,
> to determine what should happen to Chris after next Tuesday.  I think that
> it is almost a given that he won't be coming home.  What we don't know is,
> if he will have to serve time and where he will go after that time is
> served.  This is when being a mother is so hard.
>        We are meeting with the chaplain this evening.  He wants to go in
> with us
> when we vitis Chris to see how we interact together.  I have no clue if
> Chris has read my letter.  I'll probably find out this evening.  There's
> never a dull moment in the Du Bois household, that's for sure!
>        Oh, one more thing, my son Matt is coming home this evening!  Well,
> I
> mean, he's supposed to get home this evening.  Greg was instant messaging
> with him at noon and he was still packing and didn't have a ride to the
> airport yet.  He only had two hours to get everything done.  He's such a
> rotten planner.  I wish that he had received some of my genes, at least,
> in
> that department.  Oh well, I'm pretty sure that he'll make it.  Please
> pray
> that somehow, in God's mercy, we can all be together as a family over
> these
> next two weeks while Matt is home.  Matt will be sleeping alone in Chris's
> room and, right now, the only people who can visit Chris are us, his legal
> guardians.  I guess that that is another reason that I would like the
> trial
> to move forward next Tuesday.  Once Chris's future is settled, he will be
> able to have more visitors.
> Kathy