Sorry, Mag, (For yelling)

By guardianship, I mean someone else would make all of my decisions ,
handle all of my money, and I couldn't vote in public elections .



Kathy Jo















Magenta Raine wrote:

>OKAY, Kathy Jo...
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>What do you mean by guardianship?
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>How can we expect new results if we do what we've always done?
>War is outdated for the 21st century!
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>>[Original Message]
>>From: Kathy Jo Pink <[log in to unmask]>
>>To: <[log in to unmask]>
>>Date: 7/17/2005 10:17:20 AM
>>Subject: Re: I'm Back
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>>mag, Mag, MAG,
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>>NO, I DON'T WANT TO STOP GOING TO CORNERSTONE. (unless I find something
>>to do that is different) i DON'T WANT MY PARENTS TO KICK ME OUT . If I
>>was to stop going to Cornerstone, come January first, 2006, I will be at
>>Cornerstone all of the time and lose my guardianship. No, they don't
>>work for Cornerstone or own it. I go to Cornerstone just so they can
>>have a break.
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>>Kathy Jo
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>>Magenta Raine wrote:
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>>>Kathy Jo,
>>>So, stop going to cornerstone! Let your parents kick you out. You want to
>>>be on your own anyway... Do they own cornerstone? Do they work for
>>>Cornerstone? It sure sounds like your parents have a financial stake in
>>>keeping you either at home, or at Cornerstone. Why else would they be so
>>>mad about you leaving the day program? They have no right to hold you
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>>>so, don't let them manipulate you.
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>>>Mag
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>>>How can we expect new results if we do what we've always done?
>>>War is outdated for the 21st century!
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>>>>[Original Message]
>>>>From: Kathy Jo Pink <[log in to unmask]>
>>>>To: <[log in to unmask]>
>>>>Date: 7/16/2005 3:01:03 PM
>>>>Subject: I'm Back
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>>>>Hello Everybody,
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>>>>For those who are new or don't remember me. My name is Kathy Jo Pink . I
>>>>am a thirty -four year old born with Cerebral Palsy and because of this
>>>>I need help eating, going to the bathroom, brushing my teeth, taking a
>>>>bath (or a shower), washing my hair, shaving , cutting my nails,
>>>>dressing, brushing my hair, etc. Basically I need total care much like
>>>>an infant.
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>>>>I left C-PALSY because I went to an Easter Seals Camp in June. I will be
>>>>leaving the list in a month again to go to Camp Courageous of Iowa.
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>>>>Are JerkyMovements a characteristic of all cases of Cerebral Palsy?
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>>>>I am stillfighting with Independent Living. Last November, I agreed to
>>>>go to Cornerstone one day a week (just for Dayservice). That was a BIG
>>>>mistake . I said yes because My Mom wanted it and wanted a break and
>>>>Cornerstone was building on...well, about a month ago, when I wanted an
>>>>assessment for somewhere else, my caseworker said okay and stop going to
>>>>Cornerstone. My parents said (after my caseworker left) if you stop
>>>>going to Cornerstone , once a week, come the first of the next year, you
>>>>will be kicked out of the house and be at Cornerstone permanently and
>>>>lose your guardianship. I have been looking in to another options . My
>>>>Independent Living Specialist says , "
>>>>You are correct, ILR is your local independent living center. However,
>>>>our agency which has a personal care services department - unlike other
>>>>ILC's - only offers that service in the La Crosse area. One of the
>>>>things we do is to help people locate other options for personal care
>>>>services or living options. My personal preference is that if a person
>>>>has a county case worker, that case worker should be doing that service.
>>>>If your case worker needs more resources to help you, I'd be happy to
>>>>help in any way I can. But like I said, I prefer you work with your case
>>>>worker - She is there to help you. If your case worker is unwilling to
>>>>help you, you can let me know and I can assist you with advocating or
>>>>helping you find services.
>>>>Hope your search is going well. Let me know if you or your case worker
>>>>need help." and
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>>>>however, what your case manage presents may be the only
>>>>options available in your area and for your funding source. If you are
>>>>not satisfied, let her know and ask why those are the only options. The
>>>>area you live in does not have a lot of options to begin with, so you
>>>>may not have much to choose from.Yesterday, I wrote a letter to my
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>>>caseworker, I said As you know, I’m not completely satisfied with
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>>>>Cornerstone.  Some of the things I like
>>>>about it are the  staff and
>>>>drivers,  some of the outings and some
>>>>of the afternoon activities .  .  Some of the reasons that I don’t like
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>>>>the morning programming, I am not given a choice what I want to do when
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>>>>there (at dayservice), I don’t like some of the the other clients , I
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>>>>like going to bed early the night before and getting up early.  Is
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>>>Cornerstone my only option for Dayservice
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>>>>and Respite ?  If so, why?  If it’s my only option, I am going to get
>>>>somebody else involved .  How is Room
>>>>and Board paid for Residential Services?
>>>>The REM assessment is free. Knowing that, can I have a REM Assessment
>>>>done and still continue with Cornerstone?
>>>>Until I find something else that I like and can afford , I will be
>>>>willing to continue with Cornerstone.
>>>>Does Unified have a billing number that could be used for personal care?
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>>>>On the Fourth of July, my Dad  was out spraying in the  P.M. in the back
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>>>>pasture.  He had the 4-wheeler and a load of spray spraying.  He was
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>>>>going along the ditch line and the 4-wheeler and load tipped over on top
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>>>>of him.  He laid for about 20 minutes before he could move and crawled
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>>>>out.  He was in so much pain when he finally got back to the house.  He
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>>>>said I have to go in.  They x-rayed his back and he has a compression
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>>>>fracture.  He compressed the vertebrae.  He is in alot of pain.  They
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>>>>gave him four shots and pain pills.  The doctor advised him to stay in
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>>>>the hospital over night but he wouldn't.  He must be very careful and
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>>>>any change in his condition he must get to the hospital immediately.
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>>>>pain doean't have of let up, he would have gone to Dubuque (Iowa) to
>>>>see a specialist and perhaps surgery .   He went to the doctor and the
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>>>>he wants and stop when it hurts
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>>>>My Grandmother seems to be doing a lot better!  Since the Tuesday afteer
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>>>>Mother's Day, she has had pneumonia , couldn't eat or drink, and kidney
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>>>>failure . She was in and out of the hospital three times.
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