Kathy, do not feel bad about your anger.  We've been there, done that.  I
remember all the time Gretchen would steal something it would make me so
angry.  I can tell you, though, that it will all work out for the glory of
God.  Probably not today or tomorrow but it will work out to honor Him.
Also, if you have things valuable I would find a safe place for them as they
may come up missing - I mean things like jewelry, fine silver, whatever.

Sandy