Rhonda,

Of course keeping the faith of and in God is the answer, allowing peace to
rule no matter what the circumstances seem to show is what will get you
through, however I too always like to find anything I can do in a situation
to help, and that seems to me that Ben can take comfort  in his willingness
to go the extra mile, to make up time lost from appointments, to see the
positive in his behavior which are signs of a good employee, making him
more attractive in confidence to his future employer. It will all work out,
no matter what things seem like in the moment.

Brad


At 10:37 PM 11/18/2004 -0500, you wrote:
>Ben doesn't have his job anymore, it was as he had thought.  His boss is
>upset because Ben had an eye doctor appointment yesterday, he went during
>his lunch hour, and was back 45 minutes past the end of his lunch time.
>That of course isn't really the reason, just the current one.  Ben told his
>boss that he had tried to help the company, and even came back after the
>lazor surgery and stayed until 7, he told them he had tried to do his best
>at the job, but it didn't seem he could please anyone.
>Things just weren't the same for Ben once he came back frommedical leave.
>
>So, we are back in a some what familiar place, though I hadn't really
>expected to be here again.
>
>We have some money in savings, so will be  ok for a  little while, Ben has
>already been looking for a job,  a little on the side, because he felt this
>would happen.
>He brought a report home the other day saying production was up 140
>percent, but apparently that wasn't good enough. I know this is so very
>discouraging for Ben, it has to be  so depressing, to work hard at a job,
>Ben has been staying late, and has worked the last four weekends thinking
>that would help.
>I pray that Ben finds a job soon, money isn't everything, sure we all need
>it, but we need to work in a place where we are valued.
>
>I will not allow circumstances to  to change the truth I know,
>my value will not be determined by what goes on around me,
>we will be ok,
>we have been through this before,
>it is not the end of the world.
>
>I appreciate all of you listening,
>and we both appreciate your prayers,
>praying for all of you too!
>
>Rhonda

Brad

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