Asdis, I know the problem you face (boy, do I ever), and to be honest, I
don't think there is an answer to the question.  I thought, recently, I
had found "the one" I would eventually marry.  I was even shopping for a
ring, but due to circumstances, she felt it was for the best to call off
the relationship.  She was disabled with C.P., too.  After this
relationship, I've stopped looking.  I'm going to be single for the rest
of my life, I guess. And there's nothing wrong with being single, as I
think Kat and Mag will tell you.  It's a lot better than being married
to the wrong person...

I'm 47 years old, and if I haven't been married by now, there's no use
in me even trying...


-----Original Message-----
From: St. John's University Cerebral Palsy List
[mailto:[log in to unmask]] On Behalf Of Asdis Jenna
Astradsdottir
Sent: Wednesday, October 02, 2002 5:16 PM
To: [log in to unmask]
Subject:

Hi Gang,
I need to talk to you. I do not know how but I am trying to tell you. As
you know I divorced my ex two years and tree months ago. I have some
difficulties with trying to get a boyfriend and I am lonely. If someone
wants to know me on the Internet I try not to tell him about my
disabilities but when I tell him about my wheelchair he does not want to
talk to me any more. Can you tell me how to get a date? I do not want to
be
alone in my life. I want a partner who will be with me in life. How can
I
tell the man that I am a woman with feelings, beautiful woman and very
smart? Can you help me?
Thank you
Asdis