Subject: | |
From: | |
Reply To: | St. John's University Cerebral Palsy List |
Date: | Tue, 12 Mar 2002 00:55:18 +0000 |
Content-Type: | text/plain |
Parts/Attachments: |
|
|
On Thursday 07 Mar 2002 6:43 pm, Cleveland, Kyle E. wrote:
> Unfortunately, there wasn't any "bs"-ing. Everything I said I
> did--I really did. The problem was my selfish attitude. I think
> it stemmed from some sort of weird reverse self-pity and the need
> to be the center of attention. I still struggle with it. My
> self-esteem in high school (like a lot of us) was pretty low,
> especially when it came to girls. I tried so hard to be anything
> but me, and, to my shame, I succeeded. I wonder how many disabled
> kids (both genders) kill themselves trying to be "cool" and the
> best at whatever they set out to do? When I look back, I see my
> family as supportive of the things I wanted to accomplish, but I
> wonder now if they felt like they needed to push me harder than my
> brother. My parents still think it's neat that I did all this
> stuff, but I'm not sure they ever think about the cost. Even
> worse, they probably still think a lot of that over-reaching was
> worth it. Were your parents that way?
Since my years 7-19 were in Special Ed (rather than main stream) I
think I missed the pressures to be accepted at all costs. I have
often wondered how I would be different if I had been main streamed,
I suspect I may not be quite so self assured (many may argue that
would be a good thing!!).
> Brent sounds like he had a similar background. What's your read,
> Brent? Bobby? Kat?
>
Cheers
Deri
|
|
|