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Rayna Lamb <[log in to unmask]>
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St. John's University Cerebral Palsy List
Date:
Fri, 2 Mar 2001 17:15:31 +0800
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Betty, you are quite welcome to use my response in full, and give her
my name and e-mail address, I'll take this woman on any day!!!

Rayna

On Fri, Mar 02, 2001 at 02:33:07AM -0500, Betty B wrote:
    You know what, I think this will fly.  Deri, do you want credit?

    Should I tell her also that I polled people and what some of their responses
    were (I'll do it anonymously -- she won't know your names or anything)?

    In a message dated 03/01/2001 10:43:13 PM Eastern Standard Time,
    [log in to unmask] writes:

    > Yes- this is a good response- but I couldn't be so kind.... lol  Don't know
    > if she'd get sarcasm or not.
    >
    >
    >  On Thu, 01 March 2001, "Barber, Kenneth L." wrote:
    >
    >  >
    >  > now this i like.
    >  >
    >  > -----Original Message-----
    >  > From: Deri James [mailto:[log in to unmask]]
    >  > Sent: Thursday, March 01, 2001 6:14 PM
    >  > To: [log in to unmask]
    >  > Subject: Re: Help! Need Disability Awareness training comments
    >  >
    >  >
    >  > On Thursday 01 March 2001  6:15 am, Betty B wrote:
    >  > > Howdy all,
    >  > >
    >  > Howdy pard.
    >  >
    >  > I'm going to answer this for you - forward it if you like. :-)
    >  >
    >  > >
    >  > > "I don't know what your particular handicap is. Like everyone, I am
    > sorry
    >  > > you and everyone with a handicap are denied the abilities afforded the
    >  > > healthiest (physically, emotionally, mentally, artistically,
    > athletically,
    >  > > etc.) members of our society... a membership that doesn't include me.
    >  > >
    >  > I'm really sorry you've got so many problems. It is good you are aware
    and
    >  > accept your problems "(physically, emotionally, mentally, artistically,
    >  > athletically, etc.)". What a burden for you - I only score 2 on that
    list.
    >  > Its very hard to imagine someones disability from an e-mail, but I get a
    >  > feeling from some of the things you write below that perhaps your major
    >  > problems are "emotional and mental" - never mind - you are still a
    "member
    >  > of
    >  > society".
    >  >
    >  > > The strength of character, spirit, maturity, humor, and wisdom that
    > comes
    >  > > from overcoming tremendous obstacles, possessed by most handicapped
    >  > people,
    >  > > generally serve as in inspiration to everyone.
    >  >
    >  > Do you have problems typing? I think you are great - struggling with all
    >  > those things you've got wrong with you.
    >  >
    >  > > That this nation is rich
    >  > > enough to be able to accommodate those members of our families and
    >  > cultures
    >  > > in every way we can to make our brothers, sisters, mothers, fathers,
    >  > aunts,
    >  > > uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins, friends, neighbors, etc., lives as
    >  > > comfortable, rewarding, happy, and productive as possible, is a
    >  > testimonial
    >  > > to all.
    >  >
    >  > Actually the US doesn't score too well in a number of areas, compared to
    >  > other industrial countries, I don't think we can pat ourselves on the
    back
    >  > too hard.
    >  >
    >  > >
    >  > > But, is it possible that some amongst us ask too much? Is it possible
    > that
    >  > > bitterness from the unfairness of being handicapped causes some
    >  > handicapped
    >  > > people to take it out on those not handicapped? Where do we draw the
    > line?
    >  > > To accommodate people with a fear of heights, should all buildings be
    > only
    >  > > one story tall? Should millions of precious public education dollars be
    >  > > spent on one mentally challenged student?"
    >  > >
    >  >
    >  > Sorry, got me a bit lost here. You mentioned earlier the "strength of
    >  > character" and "wisdom" gained from "overcoming [your] tremendous
    >  > obstacles",
    >  > but here you reveal a darker side. Schizophrenia is nothing to be ashamed
    >  > of,
    >  > try to control that bitterness though.
    >  >
    >  > > Again, I am sorry for being so inactive right now.  I miss the daily
    >  > banter
    >  > > and wonderful wit.  I love C-PALSY!
    >  > >
    >  >
    >  > Have some fun with her, don't get serious - its a troll!!!
    >  >


    Betty
    aut viam inveniam aut faciam
    "I will either find a way or make one."

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