Hi Bobby,

         Sounds good to me - put wrecked category under marriages, too.
Certainly wrapped mine around a tree- termainally - along with my finances.
Doesn't exactly enhance my date -ablity - either.

                                    Brightest Blessings
                                          Trisha
>
> You Elaine, a thorough survey of the parents on this list and/or CP-Parent
> might be very interesting. I am always "harping" to my professional
> colleagues on how what a potential gold mine for research these lists are.
We
> could make up a very simple,
> non-invasive survey to use with parents, like:
>
> Check the areas of your lives most negative impacted by caring for your
> child(ren)
> with special needs.
>
> Financial
>
>     1           2       3       4       5       6       7
>
> no impact                                           totally wrecked
>
> What do you think?
>
> Bobby
>>
> << Yep, that would pretty much be it, and, its much more believable than
the
> "not tonight dear, I've got a headache" cliche.
> </XMP>
>  >>